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Don’t Know How To Control The Law Of Attraction? (Part One)

Posted on | June 19, 2009 | No Comments

Frustrated?  How Is The Law Of Attraction Working For You?

I heard it again today from my friend Elliot.

“Why can’t I successfully use the law of attraction to consciously create?  All I seem to get is the same old sh— again and again.”

I totally understand the frustration that Elliot has had with his attempts at manifesting.  He has admitted to me that he has seen some small gains in the past.  But, more often, as soon as he perceives the slightest negativity, his self talk and attitude tank.

Here are some of the statements that he uses all the time (These are just the ones that I can remember off the top of my head):

  • “That guy is a dumb a–!!!  Why does everything seem to go his way?  I am a he—of a lot sharper than him, but everything I do goes to sh—!!”
  • “I guess that God hates me.  What did I ever do to Him??”
  • “I have the worst luck in the world.”
  • “I am sick and tired.”
  • “I have too much to do”
  • “I am an idiot.”
  • “Well, that’s just what I expected.”

I reminded Elliot that (yet again) that the universal law of attraction is a fickle phenomenon, but I assured him that it was working…….perhaps against him.

The Law Of Attraction Is Working – You Decide If It Works For Or Against You

The law of attraction, like gravity, does not take the day off.  It works all the time, every time and every day.  If it is not “working” for you in the manner in which you believe it should, you need to look in the mirror.  Ask yourself, “What am I doing to attract these negative circumstances into my life?”

Here is a list of the most common reasons why the law of attraction is not working for you.

The Universal Law Of Attraction Requires “Conscious” Creation Efforts

This means that you have to have a clear vision of that which you are attempting to manifest.  You cannot pollute your vision with conflicting thoughts, doubts or complaints.   If you are new to the law of attraction, or have deep seated limiting beliefs, this can be difficult.  However, as you train your mind, maintaining a positive mental attitude will become easier.  To focus your vision, do the following:

  1. Develop a Life Purpose Statement.  Create a clear vision of what you want your life to be about.  Spend some real time thinking about it.  Do the exercises on this site and others until you can generate a clear, concise life purpose statement.  If you set goals that are consistent with a well thought out life purpose, you will have a much easier time maintaining the proper mental attitude for the universal law of attraction to work for you.
  2. Write Down Concise Statements Reflecting What You Want.  For each area of your life, make a detailed list of exactly what you want to create.

Do not list your goals in negative terms such as:

I don’t want to be fat, sick or tired

You will only attract more obesity, sickness and fatigue.  Instead, state your goals in positive terms such as:

I want to be 165 lbs, physically fit, healthy and attractive.

Rinse and repeat for all of the other areas of your life such as:  Finance, Relationships, Personal Development, Career, Family, Fun.

Write these things down in a permanent format where you can read the life purpose statement and goals every morning and every night.  Reading them should bring you a sense of joy.  If it doesn’t, consider revising your life purpose statement.

One more note, it is not unusual for you to revise your life purpose over time as you begin to achieve some of your goals.  It means that you are growing and developing.

That’s a good thing.  Right Elliot?

The Law Of Attraction Does Not Work With Feelings Of Guilt Or Unworthiness

This means that you have to really believe that you deserve to achieve the goals on your list.  You need to understand how special you are.  The limiting belief of unworthiness is the single biggest culprit that causes you to forfeit the abundance and joy offered by the universal law of attraction.

Guilt is a close second

You were taught to feel guilty where you have more than the less fortunate.  In an effort to feel better while others are struggling, you unconsciously reject greater wealth and happiness because you feel that other people deserve it more.

Well, to borrow a line from Elliot, “That is a load of crap.”

You do not serve yourself, your family or anyone else by embracing these limiting beliefs.  As I stated above, I believe that everyone was put on this earth to serve a special purpose.  It is right and noble for the musician to want the means to purchase a guitar.  It is right and noble for the philanthropist to want money to share with others.  It is right and noble for the parent to want a job that allows them to spend time with their children.

You have to embrace your life purpose

By doing so, you embrace your worth as a creation of God.  I respect my friend Elliot enough to allow him to exercise his free will – even if he consciously or unconsciously chooses poverty and pain.  But, I reserve the right to remind Elliot that he can empower others as well as himself by recognizing that the ability to create a better life is equally available to all.

In Part Two of this series we will explore additional reasons why the law of attraction may not be rewarding your conscious creation efforts.

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