Why Doesn’t The Law Of Attraction Work For Me?
Posted on | June 11, 2009 | 3 Comments
Law Of Attraction
It’s a buzzword in our culture today.
Since the release of The Secret, it seems that everyone is writing about how to achieve prosperity through the law of attraction.
Do a search of the internet and you will see countless articles about how the law of attraction works and why. What you do not see is any useful information about what to do when the law of attraction seems to fail to produce the desired results.
Indeed, the law of attraction always works, but more often than not, it takes much more effort to attract positive than negative change.
Have you noticed yourself having one, or more, of these thoughts?
- I have spent time everyday visualizing prosperity, but it seems to be farther away than ever before.
- The more I seem to hope for a special relationship, the more it seems to elude me.
- I seem to always attract more of what I hate than what I want.
- I seem to have good results when I first focus, but it deteriorates over time.
If you regularly find yourself having these patterns of thinking, something is wrong. You are experiencing the results of the negative aspect of the law of attraction. Instead of attracting what you want, you are attracting what you do not want.
Why you are doing this? What can be done to correct it?
Law Of Attraction: Attracting Failure
Succinctly stated, the law of attraction is as follows:
Attraction equals thought energy amplified by emotion
This means that if you focus on something, particularly with strong emotion, you are more likely to actually manifest it into reality within your life……..
Whether you want it or not.
Law Of Attraction: The Power of Negative Or Limiting Beliefs
Often, you will find deep-seated emotions that were created by past events or chronic negative self talk.
For example, if your parents repeatedly told you that
“money was hard to come by”
……and, you grew up in a life of poverty, then you will have strong negative emotions concerning the accumulation of wealth and money.
Our past, chronic negative self-talk and low self esteem all can form fertile soil in which to plant these seeds which bear negative fruit.
Just as weeds and vegetables grow side by side in the garden, so do negative and positive thoughts. Just as weeds eventually choke out the desirable vegetables, so does negative thought energy choke the life out of your hopes and dreams for a better life.
The Power Of The Subconscious Mind On The Law Of Attraction
Because it is so easy to be negative in society, the negative side of the law of attraction is, by default, a powerful, negative force in your life.
Unlike the positive aspects of the law of attraction, it takes very little effort to be negative. Since most of the time you are operating on autopilot anyway, it takes very little effort to undo all of the conscious effort to maintain positive thoughts and emotions.
Passion: The Key To Undermining The Negative Aspects Of The Law Of Attraction
“Don’t think negative thoughts”
That’s like telling you not to think of a pink elephant
(I bet you just thought of a pink elephant, right?).
Yet again, you are focusing on what you do NOT want.
The key is to find something that will allow you to effortlessly generate strong and continuous positive emotion. This is why it is imperative that you select goals that ignite your passion.
Goals that are consistent with your life purpose or purpose in life will provide sufficient kindling to ignite and sustain that passionate fire.
If you have not taken the time to try to discover your life purpose, I have several articles about finding your life purpose.
Read them. Seriously…..read them now. For me, it was an eye opening, life changing experience.
Without a passionate goal, the negative aspects of the law of attraction will grow unhindered.
Law Of Attraction: Become The Person You Want To Be
Often, this has been described as an exercise in “faking it until you make it.”
Forget “pursuing” a goal.
Become, in your mind, the person that has already achieved that goal. Success with money, business or relationships is not a goal to reach…..
It is a lifestyle that you adopt.
Properly using the law of attraction….it is this that gives you joy and satisfaction
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April 11th, 2010 @ 6:06 pm
I truly believe that you right. the bible does not contradict the law of attraction.The reason why most christians are poor is because deep down the think that that material wealth is evil.Why was king Solomon then so wealthy.
April 11th, 2010 @ 6:11 pm
I truly believe that you right. The bible does not contradict the law of attraction.The reason why most christians are poor is because deep down the think that material wealth is evil.Why was king Solomon then so wealthy?
April 11th, 2010 @ 6:12 pm
I truly believe that you right. The bible does not contradict the law of attraction.The reason why most christians are poor is because deep down they think that material wealth is evil.Why was king Solomon then so wealthy?